Five blogging mistakes I’ve made

Blogging mistakes I've made | Merry Musing

Back when I started blogging, there wasn’t a rule book. I didn’t really know what I was doing. I was using blogging as an opportunity to write about the things that really interested me. Rather than the things I was paid to write about in my job. Now some might argue, and I would agree, that I *still* don’t know what I’m doing today. And while there isn’t a set rule book as such to follow, there are definitely some blogging mistakes I’ve made along the way on my blogging journey. Mistakes that haven’t cost me massively, but mistakes I would have preferred to have learnt my lessons from earlier.


I’m still terrible at this, but one of the biggest mistakes I feel I’ve made in my blogging journey is not shouting enough about what I’m doing. What I’ve written about. And how amazingly proud I am of my blogging achievements. Maybe I’m just conscious of being that annoying/spammy person on Twitter sending out the same Tweet 370 times a day. But there’s definitely a middle ground between spam and radio silence. It’s so important to get your work seen. The blogosphere is such a crowded space that if you don’t shout about your content and post it across on social media, how are people meant to find it?


This is such a tricky topic to discuss in blogging because I feel like no-one really talks about money. Or if they do, it’s in the context of they charge HOW MUCH? I know it’s tricky. It really is. When I started getting approached by brands I loved, I never thought of asking for payment. And if they offered payment, I’d just accept whatever was offered. Rather than understanding and knowing my worth. And believe me when I say, it’s really not about the numbers. It’s not. For brands, it’s about the engagement – genuine engagement. People who comment on your posts, click on your links and buy what you recommend. That engagement is worth a lot to brands, so don’t undersell yourself!


This was another tough one to learn. When you’re approached by brands and PRs, it’s all too easy to get caught up in the excitement and just saying yes to everything. We’ve ALL been there before. But the difficulty comes when you realise you have no time to feature everything, no time to try all the products, and no space to store it all. I mean there are only so many mascaras you need open at any one time before you just become wasteful.


Although I’m lucky enough to not only live 20 minutes outside of London but also get invites to events and launches. I spent the first couple of years of blogging declining EVERY SINGLE invitation. Why? Well, because I felt awkward going to something where I wouldn’t know anyone. Rather than realising that pretty much everyone I’ve met in the blogging world is incredibly lovely and that there really wasn’t anything to worry about. I do wish I’d bit the bullet sooner and just pulled on my big girl pants and accepted the invitations. Networking is such a big part of this industry. Not only do you get to meet the brands and PRS but you also get to meet so many amazing and supportive bloggers.


Comparison really is the thief of joy, and when it comes to blogging I’ve spent too long focusing on what other bloggers have achieved, rather than on my own achievements. It’s hard not to though. Being overlooked by a brand for someone else is tough. Especially if you’ve worked with the brand before, or you feel like you’re at the same level as the blogger’s chosen. But just remember that you won’t be perfect for every campaign. And you really can’t compare your chapter 12 to someone else’s chapter 27. Just continue to do you. be proud of your work and your achievements so far. Becuase you know what, you rock!

Let me know in the comments below what other blogging mistakes you’ve made as a blogger.


  1. Joanna
    August 9, 2018 / 1:46 pm

    I have started to say no to collaborations which weren’t fit for my blog a while ago. Also, I would not undersell, as I know the value of what I am offering. Networking is definitely very important, it’s a great way to exchange ideas and get inspired.

  2. August 9, 2018 / 3:42 pm

    I am with you on these! I still find it hard to say no to work and then it all becomes too much – I really do need to be more selective 🙂

  3. August 9, 2018 / 10:18 pm

    gosh – comparing myself to others – that’s my own worst trait! I think we all do all of them. I definitely take on too much

  4. August 10, 2018 / 9:48 am

    I think we are all guilty of this to some extent – I still don’t shout about all the stuff I have done enough and I found out that I attended an event for free this week and everyone else had been paid top dollar……wasn’t impressed

  5. August 10, 2018 / 10:18 am

    Think so many of us are guilty of this but we should be proud of what we’ve done, we put a lot of effort into each blog post – why shy away from sharing it with others x

  6. August 10, 2018 / 1:49 pm

    Thank you for sharing these, I started my blog in April and so haven’t really been asked to collaborate much yet and haven’t been invited to any events but I will definitely be aware of not doing thse things now.

  7. August 11, 2018 / 7:45 pm

    I don’t promote myself enough partly because I have no idea where to go I do the whole fb Twitter insta and Pinterest but where else. I’m also not good at networking I have a huge anxiety around talking to people.

  8. Helen
    August 11, 2018 / 9:18 pm

    I think I’m (or have been) guilty of all of these too! This year I’ve made a real effort to try not to compare myself to others and to say no to PRs and companies offering things that don’t fit my blog or I haven’t got time to do.

  9. August 11, 2018 / 9:52 pm

    I am guilty of not charging enough, feeling bad for promoting and comparing myself to others 110%, I do love other people’s content and photos but it’s important to remember they’re not me 🙂

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